Knowing how to tell if a guy is interested in you or just being friendly is very important for you to decide on how to proceed or what actions to take especially if you desire a romantic relationship with him.
Don’t overcomplicate everything like most girls do and definitely don’t overanalyze it. I know many girls do that and it’s not good when it comes down to flirting with guys. So now let’s figure out how to know if a guy likes you.
Below are some top signs on knowing how to know if a guy likes you:
- Does the guy try to maintain a conversation with you?
- Does he playfully and lightly touch you on your body?
- Does he always smile when he sees you?
- does he talk about you with his friends?
- Or do people joke about you and him going out?
If so, there are very high chances that he has a crush on you and that he’s told some people. These are only a few of the many signs of how to know if a guy likes you.
How To Tell If A Guy Is Interested In You or Just Being Friendly
First of all, it’s important to take a look at the relationship that you’ve had with this person initially to see whether or not it may have grown from a friendship. At times, it’s difficult in how to know if a guy likes you if it started out as a friendship being that your actions towards each other may be a bit similar to how they were when you were friends.
If he has begun to be a bit more intimate with you when it comes to his personal problems and how he is interested in “settling down” then it’s likely that he may have more feelings towards you then you are aware of.
If suddenly he only wants to hang out with you instead of your group of friends, then he may want to get you alone only to further hint towards you that he wants more than merely a friendship.
Top 10 Ways To Find Out If He Really Likes You.
- Does He Tease You?
We have all heard this one before. This is not a surefire sign that he does like you, but if you don’t notice him treating any other girl that way it probably means he does like you. His feelings might make him feel uncomfortable around you, causing him to act his feelings out in a childish way.
- Observe His Friends
If his friends know he likes you you, they are probably going to tease him a little when they are with him when you are around. They might insinuate that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Inspect their behavior when you are around – do they laugh? Do they turn to him? Do they grin in a way that hints they know something that you don’t?
- Check For Nervous Body Language
Watch for signs like fidgeting, sweaty palms, nervous laughter, deep breaths, and looking away when you look at him. These are all tell-tale signs he is definitely interested. This is also a sign that he lacks confidence with you, you might have to keep the conversation going with this guy, so come prepared when you know you are going to talk to him.
- Watch For Signs That He is Interested In Things You Like and Do.
For instance: If he knows you like a certain kind of music, he may start a conversation about it. He might start to suggest bands, or songs for you to listen to. If he makes an effort to show he is really interested in things you like, this is a really good sign he is into you.
- Be Mindful Of Touching
Body Language experts suggest if someone touches your arm during a conversation, it is a subtle suggestion they really trust you and are really into you. Another sign is that if he makes contact he won’t move away, for example: if his leg brushes up against yours he won’t move his leg away. He may hug you for little or no reason at all. Look for the amount of time the hug lasts. These are all really good signs that he likes you, but be aware players are well aware of how to use this flirty body language so take these signs with a pinch of salt if this guy is a well known player.
- Listen Out To See if He Talks About Himself
This is not just a sign that he is really self-centered. This could be a really good indication he is into you. If he really likes you, and he’s nervous, he’ll more than likely start talking about himself. Lots of times, guys feel the need to prove themselves especially if you talk about another guy in his company. If you really do like this guy don’t talk about other guys too much this may knock his confidence and keep him from asking you out.
- Observe Him To See If He Copies You
This is known to body language experts as mirroring. If you are talking to him and you tilt your head, does he tilt his head? If you lean forward, does he? This is the ultimate sign that they are truly comfortable with you and totally on the level with you. You can also use this bit of information to your advantage, if you want him to know you like him, mirror him. Be subtle though – if you overdo it you will look like an ass.
- Become Aware Of Eye Contact
If he is keen on you, he’ll try to catch your eye and get your attention. He may make faces, or maybe even either look away quickly if he is shy. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a split second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there might be something there. If he says or does something funny and everyone around laughs, his eyes will glance towards you for a moment to see if you laughed too.
- He Will Make Excuses To Be Around You
Does he take a ride with someone just because you are in the car? Does he offer you a ride home? Does he go to the same places as you? These excuses will be very obvious, and it is a very, very clear sign he is way into you.
- He Calls and Texts You
The most surefire way to tell if a guy likes you is he calls you and texts you. Does he tell you he will call you later and 20 min the phone rings and it is him? Oh yeah – he likes you? Does he text you for even the littlest reasons, just to see ‘what’s up?’? This is the most clear and definite sign, especially if you can stay on the phone for hours or text 100 times a day.